RE: Returning- After some bad stuff- need advice

[mbe76]

So another update . . .I had told her before I booked the MC that I would not attend if there were 3 people in our M. She refused to end the EA with him and I said I wouldn't go to the MC. She has now blocked me on FB and has gone really cold with me, and the OM was at my house with her last night. So it looks like she has made her choice.

I will never be able to trust her again, as I'd previously said that if she didn't cut all comms with him as soon as we had a disagreement over anything, she would run back to his arms- which is exactly what she has done.

I am hoping to discuss the child access with her and I hope she is true to her word about wanting what's best for the children, as I've always been a hands on dad, and I hope that continues.

I am going to GAL like crazy and not worry about what she is doing, and I will not engage in any R talk at all, nor will I message her unless it is about the children.

Her continued EA has meant he has been on the sidelines waiting for his opportunity, and it looks like this is it.

So it does look inevitable now that we will be heading for the D.