Hey G.....well my pain is nothing like you experienced, I am sorry you had to go through that. I must say we had a lot of fun tonight, the comedy club was great and we went out to dinner afterwards. I am glad we went on a second date, she is really cool and laid back. I did feel my attraction for her increasing and we did kiss at the end of the night. I can tell she is shy and reserved, and I am sure it is hard for her as well after loosing her husband. I definitely will ask her out for a third date. I am really feel that I can be myself around her and that feels really good after what I went through the last year with thinking about what I needed to improve on after ew left me. I will still take it slow but I feel much better and I am starting to feel attracted to her.
