Notice I said "shut him down". For Trish, that meant doing something different. Not walking away, but doing something different than she did in the past (which was to engage with him fully).
Had your H done something different, YOU would have responded differently.... right?
That's how you close a crazymaker down.
I never got a chance to test this theory since I figured this out before he did. Ironically, he walked out, so this makes him and your H pretty similar.
And correct me if I'm wrong: you are no longer heading down that cheeseless tunnel to get your H to engage with you. Right? That makes you reformed, Pam.
Since I'm Phoebe, I'm changing the tune now. My next statement is going to be about me now.
Mr. Wonderful is coming over tonight with the girls, and we're having game night. Yes, I invited him. And yes, he accepted without hesitation.
Can I hear a GO ME?
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
