She is hiding money and being secretive with her phone because she wants to divorce you and have a new life.
Why are you talking like she wont have time before the divorve to clear her head? There isnt an evil clock ticking down that makes in love couples split up. She can choose to end it all whenever she wants. But her choice was to leave you.
do you know she isnt having an affair with someone else?
You think tidying the house, losing a bit of weight, and having a haircut will change that??
If their daughter was happy why on earth would they want her to divorve her husband??
None of this makes sense to me at all and I know this subject like the back of hand
If your just a bit out of touch with reality due to the loss of your family and future that's fine.. but your posts are giving off warning signals to me. .