I am going to be completely honest with you. There is nothing you can do now to nice her back. Everything she complained about in the past it is too late RIGHT NOW.
You need to show strength. A man who loves and values himself is not going to play nice nice with a woman who is openly cheating on him. He is going to develop a plan to communicate to her that he is not going to put up with this BS.
He is going to remove her from the martial bedroom and ask her to leave the marital home. He is going to see a lawyer to find out what his rights are and plan accordingly.
He is going to move on with his life and make it as awesome as he possibly can. Then just maybe some day she realizes what a mistake she made and she EARNS a second chance with you.
Strength, Time and Space are the only thing that turns this around. Anything else will cause you to suffer immensely.
Good Luck My Friend!
That is great advice and something that I think most of us understand, but struggle to TRULY put in to action. We just have to keep getting better and keep moving forward. It all SOUNDS so simple, but it's a constant struggle until you finally get there and realize you ARE good enough, she IS a fool for leaving you (so, I hear...not there myself).
Me: Late 30s WW: Late 30s M: 12 S: 7 BD: Late April '18 (Wife left next day) OM confirmed: July '18 (20+ years older)
The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. - Psalms 34:18
