I feel like, at some point, you have to just resolve that you are absolutely NOT going to respond to her about anything at all, unless there is a question asked about your S and it HAS TO be answered. I have been looking at co-parenting apps to minimize or possibly eliminate the need for my WW and I to text or talk to each other, and I found one that looks promising and is actually free. From reading your threads, it seems like you will have trouble getting her to use it, but you may be able to get it mandated in your divorce?
Me: Late 30s WW: Late 30s M: 12 S: 7 BD: Late April '18 (Wife left next day) OM confirmed: July '18 (20+ years older)
The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. - Psalms 34:18
