OK here's goes first post...

[Ready2Change]

"When you become responsible for yourself you have the confidence to "set them free." Your happiness and your life is all about you handling it the best for you. When you let someone else dictate how your life will be run then you are a victim and that isn't attractive. The DB techniques are all about doing healthy things for yourself. You are in control of your thoughts, feelings and actions. So when your world is collapsing around you, how attractive is it to be in control and moving forward? That's the calm, assertive energy you want to give off. It's powerful. "-Coach

Coach got his wife back. He did everything right and it worked. This is about you and how you handle it.

Your focus is on your wife. Change your focus to you and your kids.

Change your frame from "How should I do this or that" to impress my wife to "What is the right thing to do?" Should I let my wife take away my parenting time with my children? How do I get a 50/50 parenting plan in place?

Regards,

R2C