Mrs JLS journey to saving the marriage

[MrsJLS]

JustSad- wonderful advice thank you. I will start with myself first, refocus and also pray for the highest good.

H arrived at home tonight after visiting a friend whose wife is dying of Motor Neurone Disease (well, that's puts things into the whole different perspective) and I already had supper on its way. I love cooking, it is one of the things I really enjoy doing and a little part of me believes that it is a way to any man's heart... he used to say that he married me because of my cooking. So I polished up my own tricks... we talked about his friend and his poor wife (interestingly that they got married after her diagnosis and after living together for more than 20 years). Anyhow, my H was eating and saying how delicious and healthy it was. And I was joking in my self depricating way that it is just my way of earning a few brownie points as my bank called me that I am running out of my brownie credits. That seemed to bring a smile for H (yess!!). One of the things we used to share was our jokes and the same sense of humour- I used to find him incredibly funny and we used to laugh so much before all this started... I would love to bring it back - our light hearted jokes.. H didn't mentioned Divorce or our disastrous last night...

I am just going through some resource threads now- some amazing advice. I am feeling a bit more positive... can't wait for a book to arrive.