Quote: We didn't mean to reduce you to tears with this stuff!
-Betsey
Quote: the greatest person I have ever known! He's my frickin' pillar of strength
-me I meant kinda happy tears, talking about how great my h is!
Last night I TOTALLY bit my tongue and didn't do the "what's wrong/are you ok?" thing. We went to see his mom in the hosp., then decided to go out for pizza. It took us both a while to make a decision. I offer to cook since we both have said that we need to eat at home more b/c we spend too much $ eating out. At din, I tried to engage convo. about 6 times. Asking questions, mind you. I got one word answers. I wanted to start something and yell at him-" You could ask ME some questions! I thought you were going to work on conversing too!" But, I bit my tongue, was patient. Eventually he started to talk more and we had a good convo.
Went home, I took a shower, went to read, he came to bed, we snuggled. I had to force myself not to expect ML and to be happy w/snuggling. (For those of you who don't know, I'm the male & he's the female as far as sex goes. He wants to like get along, and trust each other, and have a nice r...I just want the icing on the cake, Dude!!)
thanks for listening. Guess I'm kind of hijacking since that's what Janice does.
this post has been great! Printing to take home and study. so, i'm keeping the same two goals for tonight-not to ask those q's and not to put "pressure" (as HE sees it) for sex. karen812
