The reason we are all here, to find a way to make it work. In the meantime, knowing and realizing that the first sentence may not be an option, be the best YOU you can be!
I don't know if it was Lonewolf or not, but I think he said that nothing is more attractive to a WAS/WS than when a LBS is walking away. Take that to heart!
All the best, it is not fun, but this board is an amazing place to sound off before "going" off on your spouse. Be smart, this a marathon and not a sprint. As you read through the situations going on here, you realize that the WAS/WS did make the decision to move on, but the LBS has a lot of the power in whether they work on the MR or decide to move on. You are not powerless, nor do you have all of the control. You are only in charge of you. No one else knows your situation better than you and of course your spouse. The input you will receive from this board will be invaluable! but YOU have to decide what is best for you and your MR.
My Best wishes and I will be following along. I don't comment often, just on here today due to my sitch, but if I think I have something to add, I definitely will.
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18
