Mrs JLS journey to saving the marriage

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MrsJLS.
Sorry to hear about your issues and I wish you the best.
Listen to Steve85 and any of the Vets that take an interest in your situation.
Read the DR book when it comes, you can read chapter 1 on here to get you started.
It is not an easy process and from a man who's been with his W (may be STBXW for over 20 years) I can say that any marriage is not perfect, but my true belief is love can overcome everything. I am struggling very much with the advice that I am given here. Patience is THE key. Become a better you. A spouse that only a fool would leave. Having kids is a HUGE issue in your sitch, so that is something you have to address and decide on, but knowing who You, knowing you are in the marriage through choice and because you want to be with your spouse, means a great deal to your self esteem and their desire to be with you.

Just my input IMO