Bewas great! Yes, when I dropped the rope (and for me the last piece of that was to stop snooping) it felt freeing.
Yeah, snooping has been the hardest thing for me to drop but I've done a great job of it the last while. I still get the odd urge here and there to check if she is still trying to rent out parts of our house without me knowing to help with her bills, but I suppose she is delusional if she actually believes she can legally rent out any part of it without my consent so I shouldn't worry too much about it. I'll never approve of it so long as all my things are there and I am paying my share.
It does feel so much better to be mostly focusing on myself now, that's for sure! Definitely freeing!
W 31(WW) Me 32 Married 7 years together 12 1 kid - 1.5 yr old S BD 23/05/2018 Separated since BD I moved out 20/06/2018 for my own sanity OM or just fling? Not sure...
