sounds like she wants attention to me, this is what i've been trying to say all along. she does these things to say look at me look at me, look at me you !@#$%^&&*()+ and her head starts spinning.
it is easy to get the deer in headlights look, but if you look beyond that, look deeper, there are some common needs everyone has. i know you've said she doesn't want a hug from you, what was it about believing nothing you hear? i'm not saying to do it immediately, but good timing. when she is at her most vicious, i mean her most vicious, what do you think her needs are? ladies, am i way off base?
