So the next Ugh. She just came back from her day out (presumably with the OW), and asked me if I fancied sharing a Chinese take away for dinner.
In true LRT fashion, I turned her down, as tough as it was, got a bit of a puzzled look, but now I am panicking that she'll never suggest doing anything together again.
Bloody hell, this s*cks.
Stop thinking that any one action, word, comment, etc will have such a lasting impact.It wont. Frankly, its about getting your mindset to the right place. Part of the fake it till you make it is in training your brain to this mindset THROUGH your words, actions, etc.
And heres a question for you. Lets say she went and was sleeping with OW today? How does that change anything for you? What if she were out for a romantic lunch? Or what if they sat and played Boggle? How do any of those things change your plans? In my opinion, it doesnt really matter. She said she wants out of the relationship, so what she does on her time is not really important. Do what you can to focus on YOU and what you can control.
