My story. Advice needed

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How a woman can go out and be with another man and then come home to her husband at night like nothing is wrong completely mystifies me.

Think of it another way... 'what sort of person would want to date W when she is still sleeping in the same bed as her husband?' It would surely drive the OM nuts unless he doesn't care all that much and is just using her.

I found out she lies to him about certain things as well. Makes me sound like a complete loser. Dont think he has a clue she was telling me she wanted to fix marriage and that weve still been hanging out fr the most part. I've sacrificed and done so much for her and our family over the years. My guess is that she has told him we dont sleep together but just share the house and co-parent. I just cant believe someone can be so manipulative and lie so much. I mean lie after lie after lie. She messages her A person all throughout the day when she isnt with him, basically right in my face. That said, this guy is obviously nothing special either because he knows she's married with a family. I know hes pushing her to get a divorce, and my GUESS would be that she has told him thats what she plans on doing. I think they are both just as guilty as the other, but my covenant was with her. So sad, because we were only married just over a year before this all staryed and Im starting to think the M was the trigger (together for almost 20 years).