MMM, you nailed it. That is what I struggle with. I find it extremely difficult to be aloof but still kind. I am working on it. I love my W, but she has hurt me deeply over the past year and continues to. I'm angry and sad, when I let myself be. That is the place where that movie conversation came from. I need to keep working on this. Thanks for weighing in.
Me: 40 W:39 T: 19 M: 12 D4, D7 EA/BD: August 2017 EA ended: Oct 2017 MC: Oct 2017 - March 2018 W signed lease: July 10, 2018 W moved out: Sept. 14, 2018