M - IDK if I am blazing it LOL but I can tell you it is difficult after being with the same person for 17 years. When you grow old together there are things about that person that you overlook. The physical changes after your W/EW having children don't bother you, over time it isn't that important. We change to you know?
The funny thing is that while you might give your W or yourself a pass when you are single again it is hard to give someone that pass especially when your eyes are wide open and your putting yourself back out there again. Sometimes I feel like I am in my 20's again but at my age everyone has some sort of baggage and imperfections.
Thanks KML.......I thought getting the laughter going would be a good thing
