Yeah, I am not sure I would have handled it like that. Maybe paused it, brought her up to speed and then started it back up.
DBing is hard. But you want to try to minimize the number of times she feels like something else is more important to you than she is. DBing isn't about putting other things before your spouse, it is about working on you and giving her time to figure out her stuff. Admittedly I don't know much about your sitch, I'll go back and read it, but in general you shouldn't make her feel less important in your life if you can help it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
