I am going to cease "family together time" as I think she is just treating me like a fool. It will be hard, because I love spending time with the children and family time is really important to me.
I can see all the NGS actions I was guilty of in the past, and I used to adopt a passive aggressive attitude which wasn't nice, and certainly didn't feel nice, and this is the basis on which she thinks I'll never change.
It is hard as she is entrenched in seeing me as a bad person now, and the only advice she is getting is from her OM and the Parents who hate me (which I understand she is their daughter)
I don't see a way forward with it to be honest
M(41), W(37) S (6) D (4) S (2) M-8, T-12 W "I don't love you, I am in love with another man" "I don't know you anymore"
