Back to basics and boundaries. Make it clear you will not lie about it or pretend you have no issues.
No MC please.V
Lie about what, I don't understand? I want to message her that "In spite of you promising me you would cease contact with him, you have admitted you are still messaging him, and for that reason I refuse to take part in counselling until I can trust that you are committed to wanting the marriage to work" What do you think?
M(41), W(37) S (6) D (4) S (2) M-8, T-12 W "I don't love you, I am in love with another man" "I don't know you anymore"
