J9, actually I wasn't upset at her request. I just didn't feel like doing it. LOL

I can't complain on that front. My W is very attentive to me when I am working hard. She will brew fresh iced tea when she knows I am outside working hard. I came to the old house right from work to work outside and she had a cold water waiting for me in the fridge. She is very thoughtful along those lines.

I was hungry. Tired. And wanted to eat a bowl of cereal and go to bed. The request was reasonable but it impinged on my goal of eating and going to bed. I should have said, cheerfully, "sure!" and done it. Instead I responded in a way where she knew I wasn't thrilled. Slip up. It took 3 minutes and in the big scheme of things that was minor.

I have to remember that my mood, or state, is no excuse not to e cheerful and upbeat at all times. I want my 180s to be permanent, like Mach eluded to.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018