Also, would my exF be considered a walk-away or wayward or MLC. I'm having such a hard time finding situations like mine relative to a H.

It seems like there are more H on here than W.

I read up on pearlharbr and a few others that I would find. Is my situation different because there isn't OP, just friends (and alcohol) I'm guessing.

Me: 35
XFiance: 40
Kids: 3 (His, Mine, Ours)