My exF called me Wednesday night and brought up R stuff. He essentially thinks he did everything right and I did everything wrong. He said I never excepted him for who he was. I did say to him that I excepted everything about him except for his binge drinking when he would go MIA. And I don't believe that is what defined him. He said he agrees with that, that doesn't define him so I did accept him.
One thing that he said that really bothered me is hat he never had time for himself because he was always doing things to he kids and I. This could not be further from the truth. I guess this is the false reality that everyone talks about. He rewrote the past.
One minute he says down the road he hopes I will come to "his was of thinking", then he says once he gets established he hopes we can work things out. It honestly feels like by so many things that he says that he just essentially wants me to wait around for him. I do think he just wants to do what he wants and when he wants without a family or woman to worry about. I would think that would get old.
