S.....I have to ask. It sounds like you busted your azz with the brush piles. I assume she knew that?? I find it interesting she would make such a request knowing the state you where in. What if she would have came over, gave you a big hug and said.......honey,I know you are tired why don’t you take a shower and I’ll fix you something to eat?
It just seems kind of selfish on her part and exactly something that my ew would have done.