FaceMan, the mean things Wife or Husband said to the left spouses are 'projection', I don't know if you've read the posts of projection... that's the behavior of MLCer , it hurts very much when the bad things were from our loving wife/husband. Please be reminded, they are not the persons we knew but they will be back some day, it takes time.
Please use the time and focus on you. I know it is very difficult !!! I've been there. It's pretty normal that we feel the pain and we are grieving... allow yourself but please do not stay there too long
Please eat and sleep or do the things you always want to do but had no time to (I took the language lessons I always wanna to but never did before his crisis)
Me 44 H 43 no kids Married 12 years Bomb dropped Sep. 2014 He moved out of our apartment May 2015 (my grandma died spring 2012, ever since that, gradually he became cold and distant, he once told me - I felt something is different after the funeral)
