Is there a good way to ask wife not to rush into D?
This comment alone says alot about where your head is.
You have no say in it. She is doing what feels right for HER. NOT YOU. This is NOT a business deal where you are trying to convince someone to buy something?!
Its a romantic relationship. Where 2 people love being around each other... where they help each other grow.
She is telling you that she feel like you controlled her.
You are controlling AGAIN.. by trying to ask us what to say to make her not go through with it.
There is a reason she is leaving..
And untill you start to get your head into place it needs to be - you are just going to spin your wheel and end up another statistic.
