Overrnbow, there must be some process these spouses go through where they go back-and-forth between what to do. It's still great yours is showing signs of wanting to reconcile but it seems a lot more has to happen on her end to convince you. I believe that by being tough and strong right at this time it will accelerate her decision to come back. It's so hard to avoid doing nice things or feeling so happy when the spouse starts talking about coming back. But then if they're still in that other relationship they'll just take advantage of your kind gestures. It's so unfair. It's still good news though that your wife may be nearing a turning point. I hope she thinks hard and deep right now about her choices.
