Arsh, I know it seems crappy, but my WW basically moved out. I'd see her one night a week for quite sometime. The house actually became more peaceful, I could cook, dance, play music, run around naked. It was fun. The garage door when she'd come home triggered this horrible emotional response for me that was reminiscent of my terrible father coming home and at those points I knew my fun was over.
It [censored] at first, especially when you know they are with the OM/OW. But then you start to find things that interest you. My W is (supposedly) visiting her sister for a few days and she told me yesterday morning that she wants to "try" again. I haven't seen much action to back it up yet, and I had an idea pop into my head: drive by OM's apt/parent's house to make sure her vehicle isn't parked there. But then I realized, why waste an hour of my time screwing around. I'll figure this out eventually by the way she is acting and treating me and decided to work on a new little hobby of mine.
I'm not fully detached but the separation isn't as bad as it sounds right now. I wish I had 2 boys to keep me company. We'd be tearing some "stuff" up if I did.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
