ok, drama, that pretty much better describes it. meredith, i liked the way you said that control is a sub of crazymaking, but not a synonym, that made sense to me
alas, i am mainly a control freak...
well, i knew that all along...altho i do believe at times in my marriage i did play the crazymaking game, only during those times when i threatened to leave my husband when we were fighting, that sure was DRAMA
lol - to look back at that person, who was she????