In my opinion, Crazy Making is just a more 'dramatic' form of controlling.
For instance, someone might buy tickets for them and their spouse, and say, we are going.
That to me, is a straight method of controlling.
Crazy making in my opinion...would be my husband goes out with friends.
I pretend like nothing is wrong for 2 days. Then when he asks me a question, I burst into tears and say, "You don't love me." or something equally dramatic and unfair.