i have to interject a question here - how much is "crazymaking" related to "controlling" - sometimes i feel i am a crazymaker, but other times i realize it's only a controlling personality - i don't like to think of myself as controlling, but i know i am, so maybe i like to lean towards the "crazymaking" cause it sounds a bit better ya know?

have you folks dived into that discussion about the relationship between the two? if so, just direct and i will read