Thanks D.....yep, same here. Out of no where I was blindsided. So far I have got no satisfaction and it sounds like he is the complete opposite of me. Go figure I guess right????? I do think it's funny that he is 5'6 with two chiwawa's and I am 6'2 with a couple of big dogs but that is just for me own personal satisfaction
Anyway....I feel better about it this afternoon. I assume I will meet him some day assuming they stay together and he attends one of my daughter's activities which will probably happen sooner or later (although obviously she didn't want me to meet him last night ). I will hold it together though, I do realize it is not his fault and this is all my EW's doing. Like RX said as long as he is good to my D's that is all I am concerned with.
I know my day is coming
I had the "pleasure" of meeting my XH's now wife at our youngest daughter's wedding. I was so pissed, but the day wasn't about me, so I played nice. The 2 of them sat off to the side, alienating themselves from everyone while I played the role of stepmother of the bride, right alongside the mother of the bride, which REALLY made XH uncomfortable that BOTH of his XW's were enjoying the day with his daughter while he segregated himself because he had her in tow. Fortunately for him, my redneck side was kept well at bay that day and I politely shook her hand and looked her in the eye and said hello when he introduced us then I proceeded to enjoy the rest of the day acting as if neither existed. That slimy b@st@rd!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids