My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 3

[OrangeK]

Wanted to go to the lake with me, now wants to go out of town to visit her sister by herself.

So let her. you dont care.

I asked if she told OM what she's doing.

WHHYYYY!!????
Dude, dont do that again, dont bring up OM, ask about him, or anything.
Acknowledging his existence, CERTAINLY if shes still living at home and in MBR.
That's a One way express ticket to The Friend Zone.
Set your boundaries and stick to them.

She said yes. I asked what she said. She told me she doesn't have to tell me everything. I suggested sleeping in separate beds.

This shows she has ZERO respect for you, dont suggest, DEMAND separate sleeping.
You enjoy sleeping with a cheater?
do you like being beholden to an adulterer?[/quote]

Woke up early and fix something small on the car she'll be driving that she told me about last week.

Expectations are zilch. We'll see what happens.

Again. Why?
Let OM fix her damn car, or she can pay a mechanic. Not your responsibility anymore. She bailed.
she chose to walk out on the vows and partnership, which means she doesnt get to expect you do to JACK for her.
Stop being a doormat, and cut the NGS stuff OVRN

Be a warrior.