Well, Meredith,

It's like you said.

What I really want is some reassurance from Husband that I am important, respected, appreciated, and loved.

And it makes absolutely no sense to think that I can get any of that by picking a fight or criticizing him.

I have found that I get what I want by not crazymaking...and this is helping me to decrease the times when I do crazymake.

Hugs!


PIB