OK, something similar happened early on in my sitch. Once I really started to detach, the night I told her that I would need complete transparency if she decided to comeback, and she said "okay I will start working on my resume."
I said ok, and went on with my night. Next day I was cool. Calm. Pleased. Upbeat. All the things that you should be while lovingly detaching.
That was the night she came to me in tears talking about wanting to want to stay together. And that D was wrong, and that she knew God wanted us to stay together.
Less than 24 hours AFTER I got really good at letting her go and detaching, you could see the results.
DBing really does work. But only when you do it a) for yourself not to manipulate (like you are doing) and b) consistently and well (like you are doing!).
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
