Thanks RX......I guess I just need to RELAX! It is called dating for a reason and everyone knows the stakes. I should be having fun with this not stressing out over what may or may not happen. I think I am putting some pressure on myself with this one because we attend the same church, know the same people, and I do believe she really likes me. I can't let that factor in though and impact my decision making process. She should be going on other dates as well if she has the opportunity. I do not have anything else currently in the hopper at the moment.
Your right about my EW...not entirely over her yet, close but I have some work to do. I just need to run my race and not worry about what she is doing. I would say normally I am pretty good with it but realizing her BF was eating dinner with my girls last night and now they know he is my EW BF just didn't sit well.
Actually the more I thought about it the more I realized it is not his fault. My EW was the one that did all of this and put herself out there for this man to be a part of her life so I really don't have anything against him as long as he is good to my girls like you said.
I don't really know where she is at or if she has done any sort of self-reflection on what she contributed to the downfall of our MR. I have my assumptions which is probably "no" but either way, deep down inside, I know it doesn't matter. I think accepting that it is 100% completely over has been a slow process. I also wonder if that has been impacting me mentally with this current lady and the others I have went on dates with. I wonder if I have been holding myself back and maybe not really letting myself be interested/attracted to them.
