I don't think she thinks I am trying to manipulate the situation with my behaving like I am ok with this, I think she probably thinks I am actually ok with it and have realised the marriage is over. She probably thinks I have realised that it was all my fault for it being over and she was just the one to spell it out.
So yeh, I don't think there is much to be saved here, I just can't see how she would ever come to have feelings for me again, if she is so convinced they're gone (hers and mine).
1) Stop with the mind reading. You dont know what she thinks and reading the worst just isnt helpful.
2) How can you work towards having a PMA? Portraying a positive attitude breeds positivity.
3) Whether or not the divorce happens, you need to figure out how to be OK. Even if you dont agree to the premise, the reasons, the lack of compassion, any of it.....if it happens, you need to be OK. Thats what Steve is talking about....faking it until you make it to be OK. How is your GAL going?
