ballast, my pleasure! And your point "I'm definitely doing the self reflection for myself, but it can be exhausting and absent "knowing" what if I'm barking up the entirely wrong trees fault wise is all." is a good one. And that is where an IC can be invaluable. WWs would be terrible at this because they'd give you a laundry list, some valid and a lot made up!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
