Originally Posted by HumBug
Six weeks ago, fairly out of the blue, my wife told me our marriage is over. We've been together for 14 years, married for just under 3. When I say fairly out of the blue, I mean I felt something wasn't right, but put it down to her being really busy and stressed at work as she is most of the time. Never in a million years would I have expected her to come home to tell me she is done with the marriage.


Humbug,

I'm sorry you're here. My personal philosophy is that spouses should really understand what they're up against right from the beginning. I think being in the right mindset really helps with implementation of DB techniques. So, with that, here's the bad news; you're wife is having an affair.