You are right on the money that I have to go through the entire process of self-evaluation for ME using MY awareness of my strengths/weaknesses. My only contention with what you say is in sitchs where the W just simply bails out, how does the left behind determine a true weakness/character flaw vs the weakness/flaw actually being in the one who took off?
ballast, so your question is why do the self-examination if your W just simply left without any fault of yours?
First, that would put you in approximately .01% of all cases.
But let's assume for the sake of argument that in your case this is true. How would you ever determine that WITHOUT doing the self-examination. Maybe at the end of the self-discovery you realize "I am awesome and she was stupid to leave me!" Then that would be your answer. I just don't know that you can determine that your W left you for no fault of your own without doing the work of examining self.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
