Got the book, and I am on my own password protected computer, so no chance of that happening. Not saying it isn't tempting to shove the book in her face! ;-)
I don't think she thinks I am trying to manipulate the situation with my behaving like I am ok with this, I think she probably thinks I am actually ok with it and have realised the marriage is over. She probably thinks I have realised that it was all my fault for it being over and she was just the one to spell it out.
So yeh, I don't think there is much to be saved here, I just can't see how she would ever come to have feelings for me again, if she is so convinced they're gone (hers and mine).
