Again, my comment wasn't directed at you. I have no doubt that you are successful. I have been helped by many experienced users who have been successful in shifting their lives in positive ways regardless of whether or not they reach R. I appreciate you chiming in to help guide me and others.
I hear you, Steve. I agree that this is something that I am struggling with. I am certainly not resolved to D at this point. I just wonder if it would be healthier to reach that point.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019