Vapo,

Again, my comment wasn't directed at you. I have no doubt that you are successful. I have been helped by many experienced users who have been successful in shifting their lives in positive ways regardless of whether or not they reach R. I appreciate you chiming in to help guide me and others.

I hear you, Steve. I agree that this is something that I am struggling with. I am certainly not resolved to D at this point. I just wonder if it would be healthier to reach that point.


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019