I do not know what limbo you are referring to. Since my break up I dated and still do, I got an advanced degree from university, I changed careers to one I utterly enjoy and allows me to travel all over the world on a company dime, I also travel a lot in my free time, I hike, I am an award winning photographer, I joined Mensa and tons of other stuff. If anything, post BD I became a better father, better friend and allround a better person. No sign of limbo anywhere...