I cant be the person who takes on that emotional component for you”
I dont want to ever be with anyone else but the idea of being completely alone is the most terrifying thing I can think of. I need a pep talk!
S,
In the first sentence she is telling you that you can't dump your emotional baggage all over her. My guess is you did this during the marriage and it was a big turn off for her. That was your job to be the rock for her not the other way around.
You have to stop with the negative self talk. Terrified of being alone? Do you think that statement is attractive or repulsive to a woman? Trust me, you will want to and will be with another woman.
You have a lot of work to do in regard to your self esteem and I would suggest you get into IC immediately.
STOP ALL PURSUIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IT NEVER WORKS.
