Originally Posted by Vapo
Davide,

I am not limbo 4 years later. I am a success story. Not in the manner of speaking that I rescued my relationship with my W, but I saved myself and I am thriving and my kids are thriving aswell. The reason I still frequent these boards from time to time is to give something back to the community, to share my take and my experiences and most of all to give hope and encouragement to all the newbies on the forum, that it does get better, it really does.


Thank you for that Vapo! And this speaks to hope as well. The healthy hope it that you are going to be mentally, emotionally, and physically okay, even better, no matter what the future holds.

This is very important because I recently came across this blog post by MWD: http://www.divorcebusting.com/blog/till-death-do-us-part-what-really-happened-to-real-housewives%E2%80%99-taylor-armstrong%E2%80%99s-estranged-husband-russell-armstrong/

Scary stuff. Davide, Bewas, all of the newbies struggling with detachment please heed Vapo's words. Take care of you. Make sure you are okay. Prepare for the future with or without your WAS.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018