I am not limbo 4 years later. I am a success story. Not in the manner of speaking that I rescued my relationship with my W, but I saved myself and I am thriving and my kids are thriving aswell. The reason I still frequent these boards from time to time is to give something back to the community, to share my take and my experiences and most of all to give hope and encouragement to all the newbies on the forum, that it does get better, it really does.