I kept my ring on for the first 2+ months, but once I had confirmed her A, I had to take it off. Looking at the ring on my finger, and knowing that she had taken hers off, and was with someone else was too painful. Even now that I have had it off for a couple weeks I still find myself looking at my hand or feeling for the ring being there. I'm not sure that NOT wearing it actually makes me feel any better. I think you just have to make the right choice for you and not concern yourself with how she may or may not react to it.


Me: Late 30s WW: Late 30s
M: 12
S: 7
BD: Late April '18 (Wife left next day)
OM confirmed: July '18 (20+ years older)

The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. - Psalms 34:18