Hey man as my friend warned me its another a dick punch. You get back up and dust yourself off. Unless it is in your D agreement there is nothing you can do about it. That's the reality now. When we ignore reality we suffer.
I caught up on your sitch and wanted to chime in that I think you need to be careful about settling to try to keep up with your wife. IMO attraction is not a choice, you either have it or you don't and you know within the first 30 seconds.
Your day will come my friend I am sure of it. Things will work out for you the way they did for AS, Accuray and others.
