I took mine off the day I left the house, one day post BD. It was an emotional decision and probably not the wisest one. My W put it away because she couldn't bear to look at it. Now, I'm not sure where it even is.

I think it is completely a personal choice. I'd rather not have that constant reminder of my sitch on my finger 24/7.


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019