Davide, I think you can drop the rope and still have hope. When you drop the rope, you drop the expectations, not the hope. Kind of like buying lottery tickets. I hope to win, but I don't count on it happening. And I certainly don't live day to day being upset I didn't win and wondering why. I just know that by having bought a ticket, I have a chance of winning. If I win, that would be fantastic. If I don't...oh well. I tried. My life willl go on...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...