Davide, I think you can drop the rope and still have hope. When you drop the rope, you drop the expectations, not the hope. Kind of like buying lottery tickets. I hope to win, but I don't count on it happening. And I certainly don't live day to day being upset I didn't win and wondering why. I just know that by having bought a ticket, I have a chance of winning. If I win, that would be fantastic. If I don't...oh well. I tried. My life willl go on...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019